Carrot, Egg or Coffee . . . ?

A young woman went to her grandmother and told her about her life and how hard things were for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and she wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as soon as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her grandmother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes, she turned off the burners. She fished out the carrots and placed them in a bowl. Next she pulled out the eggs and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled out the coffee and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her granddaughter, she asked, “Tell me, what do you see?”

“Carrots, eggs, and coffee,” replied the young woman. The grandmother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. Grandmother then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally grandmother asked her to sip the coffee. The granddaughter smiled, as she tasted its rich aroma. Then she asked, “What’s the point, grandmother?”

Her grandmother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity—boiling water—but each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.

The ground coffee beans, however, were unique. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water. “Which are you?” she asked her granddaughter. “When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?”

Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity, do I wilt and become soft, and lose my strength? Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough, with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate to another level?

—Author Unknown…thanks to Lauren-Mae, for posting this first!

~ posted by Betsy ~