Sunday, January 13, 2013

Gratitude


Send some rain, would You send some rain?
'Cause the earth is dry and needs to drink again
And the sun is high and we are sinking in the shade


Would You send a cloud, thunder long and loud?
Let the sky grow black and send some mercy down
Surely You can see that we are thirsty and afraid

Photo Credit: Roma.
But maybe not, not today
Maybe You'll provide in other ways
And if that's the case . . .

Photo Credit: Roma.
We'll give thanks to You
With gratitude
For lessons learned in how to thirst for You
How to bless the very sun that warms our face
If You never send us rain


Daily bread, give us daily bread
Bless our bodies, keep our children fed
Fill our cups, then fill them up again tonight

Photo Credit: Roma.
Wrap us up and warm us through
Tucked away beneath our sturdy roofs
Let us slumber safe from danger's view this time

Photo Credit: Roma.
Or maybe not, not today
Maybe You'll provide in other ways
And if that's the case . . .

Photo Credit: Roma.
We'll give thanks to You
With gratitude
A lesson learned to hunger after You
That a starry sky offers a better view if no roof is overhead
And if we never taste that bread

Photo Credit: Roma.
Oh, the differences that often are between
Everything we want and what we really need
So grant us peace, Jesus, grant us peace
Move our hearts to hear a single beat
Between alibis and enemies tonight

Photo Credit: Roma.
Or maybe not, not today
Peace might be another world away
And if that's the case . . .


We'll give thanks to You
With gratitude
For lessons learned in how to trust in You
That we are blessed beyond what we could ever dream
In abundance or in need



And if You never grant us peace
But Jesus, would You please . . .

--“Gratitude” by Nichole Nordeman

“Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”
1 Thessalonians 5:18

Saturday, January 12, 2013

Recipe--York Sensational Brownies


Most people would associate this recipe with Christmas. It’s kind of a funny story why I’m posting it now. J You see, a certain member of our family threw a fit when we didn’t have these for Christmas. Try as we might to explain how little time we had for Christmas baking, this person couldn’t get over the fact that we couldn’t have York Sensational Brownies for Christmas.

So we came to a compromise; we would have the York Sensational Brownies after New Year’s when life was a bit more normal. So yesterday afternoon he made a batch for us. Thus the reason why this Christmas recipe is being posted in January. And now we have a very happy young man in our family. J

York Sensational Brownies


1 ½ Cups (3 sticks) butter, melted
3 Cups sugar
1 Tablespoon vanilla extract
5 eggs
2 Cups all-purpose flour
1 Cup unsweetened cocoa
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon salt
24 small peppermint patties

Heat oven to 350°F. Grease 13x9x2 inch baking pan. In a large bowl with spoon or wire whisk, stir together butter, sugar, and vanilla. Add eggs; stir until well blended. Stir in flour, cocoa, baking powder and salt; blend well. Reserve 2 cups batter; set aside. Spread remaining batter in prepared pan.

Unwrap peppermint patties. Arrange patties in single layer over batter, about ½ inch apart. Spread reserved 2 cups of batter over patties. Bake 50 to 55 minutes or until brownies begin to pull away from sides of pan. Cool completely in pan on wire rack; cut into squares. Makes 24 brownies.


Friday, January 11, 2013

Blogger Challenge Day 4: Your Parents


I am blessed with two of the greatest parents in the world! (I’m sure everyone says that, but it’s true in my case! J) They have been married for almost 24 years now and together for almost 28. They have been a great example to my siblings and me of what a God-honoring marriage looks like.

For a long time, we couldn’t really decide if I took after one or the other more. With all my other siblings, it was very easy to determine which one they were most like in looks and personality.

But I was always different. I didn’t look a whole lot like one or the other. My personality was a bit of a mix as well. As I’ve gotten older, it’s gotten a bit easier to determine who I take after in certain ways, but it’s definitely mixed!

My Italian looks and coloring come from my Mom, but I obviously got my straight hair from Dad. Some of my facial features (thick eyebrows, my nose) take after Dad. My height was pretty much split between them. Mom is 5 feet tall, Dad is 6’3” and I am 5’6.”

Over the years my personality has become more like Dad. We both tend to be pretty mild-mannered. We also like to talk. J Between the two of us, we’re almost always the last ones to leave church or a gathering with friends. We often think of the same things at the same time. We both tend to annoy the rest of the family by being techno-savvy. Other family members will complain about something not working right, and when my Dad or I walk in the room they just start working! We also share a lot of common interests like flying, running, and being food snobs together. J

But there are also a lot of ways I’m like my Mom. We both love writing, and she has done a good job of helping me hone my writing skills. We both like to experiment with new recipes in the kitchen, especially when we are having guests over. When it comes to my favorite subjects in school, I tend to be like my Mom and prefer things like English and writing, history, and other fine arts rather than the math and science that Dad loves.

I am so grateful for both of my parents and I love the fact that I am like both of them!

Thursday, January 10, 2013

Coming Home

~ posted by Betsy


This is the story of a dog named Flash…an angry horse…five children who disappeared…and southern hospitality.

Early one afternoon, Rubia was outdoors performing canine ministry on one of the neighbor’s dogs. Poor “Tough” spends all his time outdoors, and his burr-infested coat lends testimony to this. Rubia had taken one of our dog grooming combs and was patiently combing out as many of the burrs as she could.


Nearby, our other neighbor’s basset hound, “Flash,” watched the proceedings. Before long, he became restless at Tough’s unavailability, and looking around for some other amusement, he spotted…the Horse.

Poor unsuspecting equine came strolling across his field, stopping close to the cattle fence. Flash’s tail twitched. With gleaming eye, he propelled his stout, furry body through the fence, oblivious to the barbed wire, and approached Horse. He began barking, and nipping, and weaving playfully between the horse’s legs. Soon he was joined by Tough and Cowboy, and all three dogs took up the teasing game with gusto.

Photo Credit: Ben.
Horse had enough. Snorting furiously, he whipped around, legs and tail flying. A canine scream filled the air, as Horse’s leg smacked against a small, long basset body. A second leg flattened Flash even closer to the ground than he usually is. Moaning, Flash took off, limping and yelping, dragging himself in the general direction of his home two ranches away.

Needless to say, Rubia was convinced Flash had gone off to die. I gently assured her that he would probably be fine, other than having a sore body and a bruised ego. In any case, I pointed out, he had surely learned his lesson and would think twice about taking on a horse hereafter.

Later that evening, Josiah approached me as I stirred the dinner macaroni. “Mom, Flash hasn’t come around ALL DAY. You know he’s ALWAYS here!” His large brown eyes searched my face, long lashes blinking rapidly. “Do you think I could just ride my bike down the road to Flash’s house, and just see if I see him anywhere around? Please??” I agreed that he could go, if he took one of his siblings with him…and came quickly right back home.

Photo Credit: Roma.

So Josiah and Roma jumped on their bikes and headed down the country road toward Mr. H’s farm. I covered the macaroni and cheese and pulled green beans out of the freezer. A short while later, Josiah and Roma returned. “We didn’t see him anywhere!” they chorused in alarm. By now, the western sky was aflame with fuschia and gold—a glorious Texan sunset.

The absence of Flash from our home for longer than 15 minutes could only mean the worst. Ever since we moved here in December, that dog forgot he already had a home; not to mention a mate and pups. This absence was monumental, and must be explained. I agreed to another expedition…this time, Josiah and Roma and Rubia would all ride together to Mr. and Mrs. H’s farm, traverse the long winding dirt lane up to the farmhouse, knock on the door, and explain the events of the day to Flash’s owners. Surely they would appreciate knowing what had happened to their precious pup, who undoubtedly was lying in a mangled heap in their barn, barely breathing, if at all. The three amigos agreed to deliver the message…and come quickly right back home.

Ben strolled into the kitchen awhile later as I cautiously pulled steamed beans out of the microwave. “What’s for dinner?” he asked. I told him. He smacked his lips in approval. “Where is everybody, anyway?” I explained about the biking trio. Bianca looked up from her ipod. “Isn’t it getting really dark out?”



I glanced out the back window and my eyes widened. “Oh, my word! How did it get so dark so fast?!” I had visions of my young son plowing his bike into a pecan tree in the pitch dark. Out in the countryside, dark is DARK. No streetlights…houses farther apart than they look. Narrow winding roads with potholes just waiting to grab your bike tires. Not good.

“Ben, please hop on your bike and ride out there and get your siblings!”

“Yes, ma’am.” Ben strolled toward the coat closet. I called after him, “…and come quickly right back home!”

You’re getting the picture, aren’t you? They did not come quickly right back home. As the macaroni cooled and the green beans wilted, I turned to Bianca in desperation. “Could you please take the car, drive over to the H’s, and find your siblings?!” Happy to be of service—especially when it involves driving or meeting new people—Bianca roared down the driveway, gravel crunching beneath the tires.

And I waited. Poured the milks. Lit the candle. Gazed out at the blackness, fingers strumming on the granite countertop. I opened the door, listening. No sound of childlike voices calling in the night. No dogs barking, nor horses whinnying. No cattle lowing. No coyotes howling. Just dark silence.

Then I remembered that Bianca had the presence of mind to take a cell phone with her. Oh glorious day! Two seconds later, I was on the phone with Roma. “Oh-Mommy-I’m-so-sorry-Bianca-is-just-giving-the-H’s-our-phone-number-we’ll-be-there-in-just-a-minute-so-sorry!”

And before long, Roma whirled into the house, explanations ahead of her by ten feet. Everyone was just fine…they were all on their way…it was so dark! but Bianca lit the way with the car headlights, and Mr. and Mrs. H were just the nicest people, and did I know that three generations of family had lived in that house once upon a time?! Mr. H. had been so happy to see them all, and he had invited them to sit and talk awhile and it was just so hard to leave they seemed thrilled with company. And his wife was the sister of the father of the wife of the man who had lived in our house! And we all need to go back and visit them again soon, right Mom?

I listened, heart warmed by the kindness of neighbors. “What about Flash? Is he okay?”

“Flash?” Roma repeated. “Oh, Flash! Flash is just fine. He came running to see us when we got there. I told Mr. H about him getting trampled and he just drawled, ‘Oh, he’ll be jest fine.’ And that was that! What’s for dinner??”

I am re-learning some lessons of country life. Well-groomed dogs are a rarity, but joyful playful ones are plentiful. A neighbor’s dog will love you forever if you remove a few burrs from his fur. Even the most patient of horses has his limits, and will let you know what those are. Sturdy souls will rise again, even when life unexpectedly kicks them down. Darkness swallows up the day suddenly…but leaves the memory of a gorgeous sunset imprinted on your heart.

Most importantly, if you plan to visit a neighbor, you’d best not be in a hurry. You will be greeted with joy, welcomed inside, chatted with at length, and perhaps fed sweet tea and pralines. You will arrive as a new acquaintance, and will leave as a friend. And you won’t even mind the soggy dinner awaiting you…as you stroll slowly right back home.

“Each of us is to please his neighbor for his good, to his edification.”~  Romans 15:2


Wednesday, January 9, 2013

A Year in Review: 2012

It’s time for the annual “Year in Review” post! 2012 was an incredible year for our family. God brought about more change than we could ever imagine. This time last year we would have been astonished to know where God would take us over the year. We are so grateful for His faithfulness to our family and that no matter where we go, no matter what we do, He is right by our side through it all.

Without further ado, here’s a glimpse into some of the highlights of our year:

In January we celebrated Betsy’s birthday by bringing her breakfast in bed.
Photo Credit: Roma.
In February we celebrated the Superbowl with friends and LOTS of good food!
Photo Credit: Roma.
In 2012, Bianca became the first fully licensed driver of the children in our family. Watch out world! J Now that we’re in a new state (with different requirements), she gets to jump through all kinds of new hoops to get re-licensed. L
Photo Credit: Betsy.
In the early part of 2012, we spent a good deal of time fundraising for our trip to Haiti.
Photo Credit: Josiah.
In March we celebrated Josiah’s birthday with a trip to The Midland Center for the Arts and ice cream with friends.
Photo Credit: Mark.
In April, we enjoyed a week of cruising in the Caribbean with my Mom’s side of the family to celebrate my Grandparents’ 50th wedding anniversary. It was an experience that we will never forget!
Photo Credit: Betsy.
When we returned to Florida following our cruise, we spent the day with our cousins who live there. It was so great to see them, as we don’t get together often.
Photo Credit: Mark.
Easter was celebrated at home as a family.
Photo Credit: Mark.
We celebrated Roma and Rubia’s birthday in May. These two are quickly becoming young ladies!
Ben had a birthday in June. He is definitely becoming a man; everyone except Dad has to look up to him! J
One of the highlights of Josiah’s year was going to horse camp for the first time. He watched us older kids go for many years, and he was thrilled when his turn finally came.
Photo Credit: Betsy.
The same week that Josiah was at horse camp, Ben was attending the National Youth Leadership training camp for Boy Scouts. His week completed with a graduation ceremony that we all attended.
In July we attended a picnic and a car show at Dad’s company. Even though it was incredibly hot out, we enjoyed our time together as a family.
Photo Credit: Betsy.
Also in early July, we took our annual summer vacation. We went to Pennsylvania for most of the week, and then spent a few days in Ohio as well. It was a different sort of vacation, but it was still fun!
Photo Credit: Betsy.
We celebrated Mark’s birthday in July with dinner at his favorite Mexican restaurant.
Bianca’s birthday was also celebrated in July. We had a nice dinner at home as a family and then opened gifts together.
Photo Credit: Betsy.
We had an awesome time helping out at our church’s Vacation Bible School themed after “The Avengers.” It was a week filled with fun!
At the end of July, 6 members of our family and 16 total members from our church went on a week-long missions trip to Haiti. It was truly a life-changing experience for us all.
Photo Credit: Betsy.
Josiah became the first child in our family to break a bone. Thankfully, it occurred towards the end of the summer, but he still had to wear a cast for a couple of months.
At the end of August we all participated in a race festival after many months of hard training. We love running!
Photo Credit: Betsy.
Mark and Ben enjoyed a Father-Son trip to Colorado to do some sight-seeing, as well as to attend the Hazardous Journeys Mountain Rendezvous Retreat hosted by Vision Forum Ministries.
In September, we started school again. It has been another great year of homeschooling for us, although we have to do a bit of catching up now after taking nearly a month off in December.
Photo Credit: Betsy.
At the end of September, some dear friends hosted a going-away party for us in light of our upcoming move to Texas. It was great to fellowship with friends!
Photo Credit: Roma.
In early October, Dad moved to Texas ahead of us to begin his new job. Our 7 week separation was longer than we had expected, but it made our reunion that much sweeter.
Photo Credit: Betsy.
Over the course of the summer and fall, we enjoyed having several reunions with our Haiti team. These people have truly become family to us and we miss them dearly!
Photo Credit: Roma.
We hosted Thanksgiving at our house, and my Mom’s side of the family came up for the weekend. We had a great time celebrating all the blessings God has showered upon us!
Photo Credit: Mark.
The day after Thanksgiving, Mark and we kids went to a friend’s house and did some target shooting. Most of the kids had never shot a gun before, so they had a blast (pun intended.) They’re now begging to get a pistol. J
The 3 boys and Bianca experienced their first NFL football game when they attended the Dallas Cowboys vs. Pittsburgh Steelers game in Dallas. They had a great time together enjoying an incredibly well-matched game!
Photo Credit: Mark.
We celebrated Christmas early as a family at home before traveling north to spend Christmas with family.
Photo Credit: Betsy.
In Pennsylvania, we had a great time catching up with all our cousins from Florida as well as visiting with Grandma and Grandpa! You’re looking at a fun bunch of people. J
In Ohio, we were also able to visit with lots of cousins and our other Grandparents. We are so blessed by our relatives!
And that was 2012! We cannot wait to see where God leads our family in 2013 and the plans He has for us! Happy New Year from our family to yours!